Top 21 things to make it work!!

this is what i think makes a perfect relationship
1. learn from your mistakes and grow from them...in every relationship there are mistakes, no one is perfect
2. take the blame together....not one person is wrong usually its both!!
3. be there for one another..a relationship is 50/50...not 60/40!!
4. sex is not always the answer!! you cant have sex and expect for your problems to vanish into thin air
5. yes everyone needs a breather{{found that out the hard way}}
6. dont focus on the bad, bc honestly if it was all bad you guys wouldnt be together
7. sometimes when you are mad at each other its better to talk out the problem, not walk away from it{{it make you sleep a lot better}}
8. dont do dumb stuff to tick each other off...more then likely you know what button to push, so dont push it!!
9. dont take each other for granted, bc at any given day it could all be gone
10. Pleeeaaaasssseeeee always keep it one hundred with one another!! dont lie to protect feelings bc whats done in the dark always comes to the light!!
11. please do have sex!! bc what one wont another will {{cheaters}}
12. remember simple things count!!
13. dont go looking for someone perfect bc the imperfections count
14 always make sure you guys are on the same page!!!
15. DO NOT i repeat DO NOT go through each other's things..bc sometime you might find what you are looking for..and there should be some trust and privacy there right?
16. no matter what remember the truth always hurts but its best if you tell it
17. know what you want..there will be no back and forth...its eitha yes or no!!
18. if you are mad please dont take it out on others...handle it together!!
19. other friends that like you...hmm big NO NO
20. do not let everyone know you are feuding that is how everyone plans your downfall!!
21. Lastly always remember one man's trash is another man's treasure!! if you are not doing it right someone else is always dying to take your spot!!

I wrote this because either i have experienced these or i know ppl that have...its all love!!!

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A lot has happened to me when it comes to love...and i really try not to believe in it bc im always the one that gets hurt..but i cant blame nobody but myself. i put myself in those types of situations. I wondered would there ever be someone out there for me? and i have come to the conclusion that there is and that i just have to wait...i have inner relationship problems that i must work on!! one day i will find that special someone to make me feel whole again{{i just wished it was him}} but you never know it may be and it may not be!! but i figure as long as i can keep myself happy then i will be fine...i must love myself b4 i can love again!! I have the biggest fear of being alone and it took me a long time to realize that. i may act like that doesnt phase me, but i am willing to go through good and bad just so i wont have to feel alone. i could tell ppl that being by myself isnt all that bad, but it indeed sucks. i guess i wanted to hold on to something that i could no longer hold on to. i cant make anyone love me or like me. its up to them if they really wanna be with me. My heart cannot take it anymore. i rreally did try to find happiness in making someone else happy and i would put them before myself, but that wasnt right...i must put myself first no matter what the cost it. i am promising myself that i must be mature and understand that all i have is myself..and my happiness. because at the end of the day, as long as i wake up and God is pleased then thats all that matters. so for this love stuff imma put it in his hands and let him guide me and my situation. because this nothing to be depressed about its just an learning experience. and i am a firm believer in; everything happens for a reason and if its meant to be then it will come back around no question.

Promise me this

So im sitting here listening to promise by jagged edge and im thinking that i want this one person to promise me something.. and its a lot, so promise me this...

please promise me this: that you will forever make me happy
promise me this: you will be there to catch my tear
promise me this: you will be there to make me smile
promise me this: you will be there to make me laugh
promise me this: you will be there to hold me when i am scared
promise me this: you will be there when no one else is
promise me this: you will take all my pain away
promise me this: you will never leave me
promise me this: everything will be alright
promise me this: you will never let anything come btwn you and me
promise me this: we will get through our problems
promise me this: you will always put me first
promise me this: you want walk out that door and forget me
promise me this: i will always be secure
promise me this: i will always be beautiful to you {{no matter what}}
promise me this: i will forever have a place in your heart
promise me this: you will never be ashamed to admit that im yours

and last but not least...


Promise me this: our love will never be lost

randoms...

okay im sitting here and i am randomly ranting and raving abt life...
i swear to you idgaf abt how my parents feel abt shit!! they have really been pissing me
off for the past couple of wks...
im not feeling females at all..yall are really abt to become obsolete in my life
friends smh...what is that definition??
i am starting to grow up and i am searching for independence..
who listens to diet plans anymore?? overrated...stop eating so much and
you will not be over weight
i wish everybody in the world would get it together..its 2010
why is it that ppl are still doing the same shit that they did back in 2000??
why do ppl make new yrs resolutions?? if you aint change the last time you made the last
new yrs res. you aint changing, face it you are stuck in your ways!!!
how come it takes so little to get you down and so much to get you happy again??
why do some guys feel that you owe them the world??
facebook and myspace is gay now...so stop using it!!
is it a crime that i am a shopaholic??? tehheee{{i think not}}


well those were random things that i wanted to share with you!!! <3
i did good for my first blog!!